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Since I was a kid I have been writing stories. Narratives about fictional characters in made-ups worlds, within the infinite realm of my fantasies. Now I write about my real life adventures, about the results of my yearning to see as much of the world as I can possibly combine with a career and regularly seeing friends and family. These stories are primarily a recollection of my own memories, as I am keen to preserve as many details of my foreign adventures as possible, lest the images I try to recall years later inevitably become blurred. As a positive externality, the result may be a pleasant read for the interested outsider. I hope you will enjoy my blog.
Tony Grifone
Monday, 22 July 2013
Thursday, 18 July 2013
Tuesday, 16 July 2013
favourites!
The other day I was facing a lovely unscheduled evening,
full of sunshine and warmth and calmness. But where to epitomise all this? Though
never overcrowded the beaches and parks always attract a decent number of
people these hot summer nights, and I was up for some zen time with books and music and nice food. The back garden? The
landlord and lady are back from Spain and would almost certainly occupy same
for the larger part of the evening. Hence the decision to pull James out of the
shed and make the way up to one of my favourite spots in Dublin; the viewpoint
over the city in the foothills of the Wicklow Mountains, subject to earlier
stories in this blog. I had my headphones and music with me, as well as a
decent salad for dinner plus drinks and cookies to top it off. And best of all;
the view in the sunshine. I sat there for almost two hours, didn’t even touch
the book I had brought along, as I was consuming gorgeous Dublin right in front
of me with all my might. I sat there until the sun set and the mosquitoes made
me leave; off to the Dublin I had been looking at for so long, back to its
buzzing streets and lively pubs. Two different worlds, 30 minutes apart.
time travels
My first time that I ever saw a cheque was here in Ireland. Big
grins and awkward looks when I pulled my Ulster Bank cheque book from the envelope
they sent me. Now I process them weekly, as clients still pay in by sending up
cheques, or handing them over personally in the bank. A laborious and time-consuming
process, but really the norm in here. Setting up a bank account took Bo four
months, and we pay our electricity bills in the post office. Internet banking
exists but is not frequently used, as cashiers still transfer large amounts of
money in between accounts for their customers. To top it off: my annual payment
for the tennis club I recently joined. 500 Euros, which I gladly paid for the
awesomeness I get in return, but rather through internet banking or by credit
card in order to retain proof of payment. In the end neither was possible; the
flavours were cheque or cash. And guess where the ten shiny 50-Euro notes
disappeared into? A cookie can, pictures and all, filled to the rim with bank
notes. I love it.
Monday, 8 July 2013
land versus sea
Although my enthusiasm for Dublin and her treasures may seem
repetitive, the illustrations that feature its impeccable sources of joy are
certainly not. As these days we enjoy a summery weather I am repeatedly told
not to believe, the gf and I allowed ourselves just enough time after work to
get changed, pack the rucksack with beach essentials, and cycle down to the
coast. Whereas the dart takes you along many fine beaches as far south as
Greystones, the one nearest to the city centre has its own unique appeal and is
easily reachable by bike. At high tide the beach is perhaps 20 metres long,
evident by the change in soil as the white thin sand fades into darker wet
underground with streaks of seaweed and tiny crabs crawling around. As we
climbed down the rocks separating the sand from the cycle track above the tide
was low. So low, I couldn’t even see the sea. A flat wetland, with puddles and
sandbanks as far as my sight would take me. Venturing well into this quagmire up
and till a drier and less shallow stretch of sand we got to the point where distant
waves could be discerned. Sitting down however the metre or so that my eye
level was lowered was more than enough to hide the water again and all seemed
endless bog again. Ships leaving the harbour seemed to be drifting on an
endless desert landscape as they made their way to the ocean. How most peculiar
that the change of tides covers such an immense area! An odd feature no doubt,
but one I was immensely grateful for. How pure the bliss of sitting in the
middle of that ostensibly endless scenery, savouring the salad we had taken
along for dinner, with olives and cherries for dessert, gazing at a most intriguing
landscape. Facing the coastline we have the Wicklow Mountains to our left,
simmering in the distance behind the green city in the sun, colourful Georgian doors
and wrought iron fences around cosy low houses. Turning further to the east the
coastline disappears in the distance, its curves concealing Dalkey, Bray and
Greystones from the eye, until land fades into open water, barely discernible
beyond the vast stretches of sand that the sea has temporarily granted us. On
our right the cranes and pipes of the Dublin harbour dominate the lion’s share
of the scenery, with deep proud horns preceding the departure of yet another massive
vessel making its way to the sea. Further to the east two tall white and red
chimneys gaze over the Ireland’s capital; defining landmarks in a city where
medieval spires have yet to concede their celestial dominance of the skies. And
in the middle of all this intriguing scenery, so close to the dynamics of the
city yet so very thoroughly shielded from its noises, smells and people, our
sandbank offered just another insight into how truly magnificent Dublin is and
how I keep falling more and more in love with its many treasures. Our light
dinner was followed up by some fervently needed physical activity after a day
in the office; chasing my orange frisbee while taking in the scents, sounds and
sights of my energising surroundings I felt like a young dog with seemingly
infinite energy. Hours we spent there, until the sun set and we ventured
homeward, full of inspiration to write this precious memory down.
Sunday, 7 July 2013
Minbuza
I quote Manon here when I declare myself being in a state of
‘social hangover’. Seven wonderful friends have just left, leaving me in Dublin
with memories of a fantastic weekend and a tinge of a lingering headache. It
was a weekend full of laughter, hugs, smiles, great food, catching up with the
new, reviving the old, and fantasies about what the future may bring. Many
thanks for such lovely time!
Thursday, 4 July 2013
Malawi
Let’s just write it down. My thoughts, today’s insights, what’s
keeping me busy walking home on a Thursday night. Let’s write it down so I’m
not forgetting it, write it down so I can reread in 10 years time and realise
this was one of those moments. Two things happened today. Well, more things
happened; I played tennis over lunch and I had a very nice dinner prepared by
Pieter’s gf and I woke up late without an alarm clock because I’m used to Bo
being my alarm clock and she’s not here but that’s not what I was talking
about. Two things today, on the same day, that made me realise.. well…
re-realise if that’s a word, why I am doing what I do. Career-wise. Why I’m in
banking and what the purpose in the greater scheme of things is. De stip aan de horizon. I sort of forgot
for a while, being preoccupied with my great life here and with the banking
career and with many awesome happenstances but not the true (work-life) passion
that’s awaiting me in some years’ time. This morning I read a motivation speech
by a young lady about why she wants to work for Rabobank, about sustainable
food production in Africa and R&D in food&agri and about hunger and
feeding 9 billion people in a few decades’ time. And then this night I went to
a theatre to see the documentary “Where there’s a well” which is about potable
water in Malawi and how this feeds into sustainable growth and a bit of
traditional aid & NGO bashing – which I am always appreciative of. Well,
both those things reminded me of the bigger plan, the plan I had set out a year
and a half ago and what should lead me to working in the field that I am most
passionate about; sustainable economic development in the less developed parts
of the world. I like finance and banking and that’s why I enjoy my work &
life but it’s not the true passion. It’s a stepping stone to that, cause when I’ll
be skilled and experienced in a field and when I’ll be adding value then I can
venture off to wherever and make a difference. Slipped the mind for a while,
glad I was reminded. Twice. In one day. Coincidence?
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