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Since I was a kid I have been writing stories. Narratives about fictional characters in made-ups worlds, within the infinite realm of my fantasies. Now I write about my real life adventures, about the results of my yearning to see as much of the world as I can possibly combine with a career and regularly seeing friends and family. These stories are primarily a recollection of my own memories, as I am keen to preserve as many details of my foreign adventures as possible, lest the images I try to recall years later inevitably become blurred. As a positive externality, the result may be a pleasant read for the interested outsider. I hope you will enjoy my blog.

Tony Grifone

Saturday, 26 April 2014

red pants farming


A few weeks ago Bo and I spent the Sunday at the farm of Padraic’s parents. Roaming around fields lined with hedges and dry stone walls, feeding the sheep and climbing bales of hay made for a lovely morning out and about, accompanied by Lassie and Jess. After a filling brunch prepared by Padraic we settled in one of the house’s living rooms and flicked on the television to see Liverpool beat Man City and continue their road to the first PL title in 24 years. Liverpool fans all around with even Lassie barking enthusiastically when Gerrard’s corner kick made for the 2-0. A visit to the Hill of Slane on the way back to Dublin guaranteed the cultural aspect of the day and surely I’ll be back at this welcoming and cosy farm house, not in the last place to see Lassie again! 

Monday, 21 April 2014

“If you get the weather, there’s no place like it” - “We are so lucky with the weather!” - “I think Donegal is my new favourite place in Ireland”

The above pretty much summarises our experience over the past four days in county Donegal. Connected to the rest of Ireland by only a sliver of land, Donegal is often regarded as ‘different’ by most people here in Dublin. The prevailing comments however suggested that Ireland’s most north-western county is worth the 3.5 hour drive up, “if you get the weather”. As the forecast here is as reliable as an alcoholic’s vow to abstain from further drinking, I decided to ignore the hopeful whispers and ominous muttering alike, and packed the entire range from rain jacket and scarf to shorts and t-shirts. As we had the spacious Volkswagen Passat at our disposal, luggage for once wasn’t subject to the usual impediments of weight and size, and Bo and I both stowed two big bags each into the car’s trunk. Clothing for four seasons and enough food to last a week; let’s go!


At the time of writing it’s Monday evening. The weather has been cooperative to say the least with pretty much uninterrupted sunshine and more than pleasant temperatures. We have covered 800 km and seen the world. To be frank I have seen some pretty cool scenery in my life, not in the least the panoramas from four days of trekking through the Himalayas, Kerala’s jungle, Morocco’s Atlantic coast, and the holy temple mountain of Hua Shan in China. But what Donegal has to offer is really quite something spectacular and ranks among the most impressive sights and scenery I have ever got to enjoy. The interplay between wild ocean and sheer rock formation, with cliffs soaring up from the waters, only to give way to the most unperturbed and virgin beaches, and the entire absence of mass tourism make this place almost magical. Nigh everywhere we ventured there was the temptation to linger and stay longer, and many new ‘favourites’ were born. In the end it has been a hugely satisfying journey, and if anything, I know I’ll be back again, to each and every one of the places we have experienced. Well, enough of the indistinct reminiscence, let’s get down to a more tangible description in chronological order.


Day 1.
Day 1 was largely spent in the office as really it was just another day at work, bar me leaving at four in the afternoon and starting the engine of our fully equipped car at half four. The journey up took about 4 hours, but in the end I savoured my first Guiness of the weekend in one of Donegal Town’s few bars, listening to some mediocre live music, and I knew the fun had started. In what has become a cherished tradition by now, we started our journey with the cheapest half-decent  accommodation we could find, only to increase our standards gradually over the course of the trip. To be honest the bed in Donegal Town Independent Hostel made for a great night’s sleep and the shower was warm in the morning. But wait, that’s already day 2.


Day 2.
Day 2 featured an early rise that became the standard throughout our trip. However much we like sleeping in, there was simply too much to see and do. Our half an hour hike from the car park to Slieve League was dominated by roaming sheep and ominous clouds, and the views from “Europe’s highest sea cliffs” were enjoyable but not altogether much impressive. Maybe it was the weather that took away a bit of the magic, as we couldn’t even see the top of the cliffs across the sea inlet, given that these were covered in grey clouds. Luckily those were the last clouds to be seen and before Morning had conveyed its responsibilities to Afternoon we found ourselves in brilliant sunshine hiking up the hills surrounding Glencolumbcille.


The Lonely Planet was once again of invaluable help by recommending the Tower Loop, which indeed provided great views over the cliffs and Atlantic ocean from the top of the bog-covered heights. All this exercise warranted some food-related reward and not much later we indeed devoured a decent fish chowder in Ardara, a few kilometres up the coast. The small village signifies the gateway to Loughrea Peninsula, which ended up being the first place in the county that truly released our “oooh’s and aahhh’s”. Our stay at Carnaween House was a concoction of magnificent flavours, scents, sights and sounds. Based at one of Donegal’s many white beaches, our home for the night was tastefully decorated in a style that breathed “summer” and “sand” altogether. After half an hour in the lounge chairs in front of the house, by now under a radiant sun, we couldn’t resist the temptation any longer and rushed towards the sea. Iniskeel island, which can be reached on foot when the tide is low, makes for waves coming from two sides at hide tide, as it splits up the flow of water streaming in from the ocean. The result is a peculiar interplay between moving water, with waves crossing each other as they reach the shore, creating an ephemeral chessboard of blue and white.  Iniskeel island isn’t the only pearl enhancing the view from the beach however, as the horizon is dotted with tops of mountains making you want to stare in the distance for hours. With the weather being such an unexpected treat we spent all time left until dusk at the sea shore, tossing the frisbee and running through the ankle deep water, feeling more child than ever. In the end our reservation at our host’s restaurant made us leave the spoils of salt and freedom, only to take place at the best table with the best view over the bay with the best fish dish I had had in ages. A late evening stroll with a glass of the Green Spot after dinner, and off to bed, as really all we wanted to do was to be awake when the sun shone. Tucking in for the night at eleven pm on a Friday really was an easy sacrifice given the day-time bounties that lay ahead.


Day 3.
The first half of the next day wasn’t the best part of our trip, as the “scenic drives”, despite the obvious scenery that comes with them, do take up a lot of time and do not quite grant the same experience as being outside our moving prison of glass and steel. Reconfirming that position after an hour of “scenic drive” detour past holiday-home covered coast line we drove straight on to our next destination and parked the car early in the afternoon at Corcreggan Mill B&B. Amicably instructed by our host Brendan we set off towards another winning combination of exercise and sightseeing. The afternoon’s three hour hike was truly spectacular, starting off at what has become my new favourite beach (in the world) and reaching to the top of the cliffs from where the views over the ocean and the islands off the coast are breath-taking. Rolling waves crash incessantly against the rock formations that guard Ireland’s main land against the ocean’s perils and make for a spectacular sight, especially when watched from high above. Unfortunately the mapped walking loop appears to be closed these days, which forced us to climb over some fences and dodge a number of sheep to reach the main road again, only to be confronted with an angry farmer who must be telling about a dozen hikers each day to stay off his land. Not ideal. That evening we gratefully made use of the self-catering kitchen in an effort to stave off the mounting costs that come with enjoying life so thoroughly, especially given the eccentricities that lay ahead at Loch Eske Castle. My usual recipe of pasta and pesto made for a tasty evening meal, and after some reading in the hostel’s cosy common room we opted for another early night’s sleep, as we hadn’t seen the true treasure of the area yet. Horn Head.


Day 4.
Day 4 was arguably the best day. Relying again on Bo to follow through on the previous evening’s decision to rise and shine before 8 am we enjoyed a decent breakfast at the B&B and set off towards Horn Head just when most people were drowsily making their way downstairs. Even against the background of all the previous treats of the trip, even when compared with the most beautiful and impressive gifs of nature I have been given to enjoy in my life, Horn Head is AMAZING. Bliss. Pure bliss. I tell you, go there, get a day with a brilliant blue sky, go early in order to have the entire area for yourself, and soak up the immense feeling of wonder and amazement of how beautiful this world can be. Imagine yourself on the very top of the highest cliffs, with the ocean left and right, the thundering sound of crashing waves below and the quiet of the main land behind you, with the coastline and islands disappearing in the mist beyond. Seagulls soaring in the depths below, tiny spiders crawling in the moss just below your face, while you are lying flat on your belly, peeking over the edge, defying feelings of vertigo and instead soaking up the adrenaline that is rushing through your body. Need I say more?




A morning that starts so overwhelming must get a decent follow-up. How often would you soak up the salty water of the Atlantic Ocean as well as the chlorine of one of the country’s best spas in one day? Not often. As we hadn’t been properly equipped to pay homage to my new favourite beach upon discovery the previous day, Bo and I decided to nibble at some of the day’s available time to get some early spring swimming under our belt. The water was freezing and the current pulling us away from the beach surprisingly strong, but the twenty-odd seconds in the water were an experience well worth it. More running and splashing through shallow waters, wearily observed by hikers in jeans and sweaters, and back to the car for the afternoon programme, off to Loch Eske.

The last night of our trip was responsible for about half the entire journey’s expenses. The reason why was well worth it however. As we were told by Rachel, our chatty and attentive waitress over dinner, Loch Eske Castle was all ruins from an 18th century sacking from which the former times’ stronghold never recovered... until six years ago, when the entire castle was rebuilt in the old style. When Michael, the butler, opened the oak wooden doors to our room for the night, there was no need to look at Bo to know that she was thinking the exact same as I was. I had never stayed in such a luxurious place before. Apart from the hotel room and all that it entailed (we guestimated that it was bigger than Bo’s former apartment in The Hague), the castle grounds boast a luxurious spa and top notch restaurant. Furthermore there are numerous lounge rooms decorated with oak wood tables, plush chairs, walls covered with shells full of books, ornate mirrors, soft carpets, huge paintings in gilded frames, elegant side tables, thick curtains, wooden panels covering the walls, open fires burning in the hearths… all you need and more to pick up a book and soak up the atmosphere around you. Breakfast was delicious and filling, dinner even better with oysters and lamb. The 21 hours we spent on the grounds were the 21 most lavish hours of my life, and are well worth the upcoming week of living off white rice and uncooked beans to make this month's budget close.

Wednesday, 2 April 2014

The weather - what else

It’s a dark and dreary day in Dublin and incessant drizzle has engulfed the city, affecting all who venture outdoors like a contagious disease.  Thick clouds hovering close to chimneys and roofs make that dusk seems imminent shortly after I leave the office, as if the clock has been turned an hour back rather than ahead last Saturday. It’s an evening to go home swiftly and bolt the front door for the night, as surely one would not leave the warmth and safety that comes with being at home. Sitting in my favourite couch at the window facing the streets, I see the fog and gloom ominously pressing against the glass, as if attempting to intrude my safe haven. It’s the perfect night for writing a blog post.


Luckily murky weather as this goes as quickly as it comes and tomorrow could be a whole different day. In fact, singling out some standalone moments over the past week I may as well have imagined myself being in the Mediterranean. Our weekly Tuesday afternoon football sessions don’t get any better than yesterday’s, with a brilliant blue sky and radiant sunshine blessing our small-time endeavours. And also last Sunday, hiking around the Howth peninsula in a t-shirt, climbing rocks and walking past large estates with gorgeous sea-views, flashbacks of a similar saunter in Capri (summer 2008) were not altogether inappropriate. The sniffing and running nose that I have entertained my colleagues with today are the keepsake of the first frisbeeing of the season yesterday evening. Having enjoyed such a gorgeous midday escape from the office, and still not quite having learnt my lesson when it comes to the whimsicality of the Irish weather, I convinced Bo to go to the beach after work to release some of the impatience of being locked up in an office for too many hours a week. Sniffing or no sniffing, I did enjoy the hour or so spent on soggy sand tremendously, running and jumping around in efforts to catch the orange frisbee carried on the Eastern sea winds. And how better to follow up on such delights than to watch a Champions League quarter final match in one of Dublin’s countless pubs, while savouring a pint of Carlsberg and filling the stomach with fried cod and chips. As such staying in tonight is really quite the exception, as also Saturday, despite slightly less encouraging weather, Mark and I braved the elements and set off on an afternoon of playing golf at Elm Green. Again our perseverance and good faith got rewarded with some hours void of any rain and a rather empty golf course. The treat we rewarded ourselves with afterwards may sound rather familiar by now but I assure you that pub food and a pint of draught in combination with a decent football match on a big screen never gets boring!