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Since I was a kid I have been writing stories. Narratives about fictional characters in made-ups worlds, within the infinite realm of my fantasies. Now I write about my real life adventures, about the results of my yearning to see as much of the world as I can possibly combine with a career and regularly seeing friends and family. These stories are primarily a recollection of my own memories, as I am keen to preserve as many details of my foreign adventures as possible, lest the images I try to recall years later inevitably become blurred. As a positive externality, the result may be a pleasant read for the interested outsider. I hope you will enjoy my blog.

Tony Grifone

Sunday, 8 February 2015

Reunion of former housemates

The track record wasn’t altogether convincing, with one single lunch sometime 18 months ago in Utrecht comprising the only time Marjolein and I had seen one another since I left our shared apartment and we ceased to be house mates. That was in The Hague, February 2013, two years ago by now. Haphazard Facebook messages once every so often with response rates ranging from a few weeks to a few months weren’t too encouraging either, and the oblivious outsider might have thought that a friendship built up over the course of a year at the Westduinweg was not to last. Well, such premature thinking was decisively proven wrong over the course of the weekend that is just coming to an end. Marjolein’s stay in Dublin, from Friday early afternoon until 48 hours later, was very much reflective of a joyful reunion of former housemates, with plenty of stories to tell, questions to ask, slagging to be exchanged and catching-up to do. And in the spirit of my departure two years ago, when we voiced our ambitions to do some cool hikes together somewhere in the British Isles, the weekend wasn’t only about eating and drinking. Let’s recap.


Friday afternoon, after the girl had finally reached our office walking from College Green to Christchurch all the way to the canal and finally past the Barge to Charlemont Place, we set out for some proper Dublin sightseeing. Or well… showing her the Church for a Belgian beer and a diet coke (we’re in Ireland lassie), the Bank for a few pints of Guiness (uglch – really??) / glasses of Carlsberg and Against the Grain for a lovely burger and some more pints / diet coke mightn’t constitute the typical sightseeing tour but definitely got her a flavour of the real Dublin. The afternoon and evening flew by until we called it a day after our last Belgian beer at Blackbird and tucked in for the night, knowing that Saturday morning would be an early morning.


Driving through the Wicklow Mountains down south early on Saturday wasn’t as enjoyable or exciting as I had hoped. Thick clouds restricted our view beyond a hundred metres or so, and the stunning vistas I knew were there remained hidden behind a curtain of fog. Bummer. If conditions didn’t improve our hike in Glendalough could become as ordinary as anywhere uninspiring with the best of the Wicklow Mountains obscured by nature’s fickle temperament. No rain isn’t the only condition for an enjoyable walk! Luckily the sun emerged as we approached our destination and plenty of blue sky appeared through the slowly receding clouds. Ireland again proved unpredictable but rewarding!


‘At first I thought, nice lake, cute walk, but nothing spectacular. You know. But when we reached the top of the cliffs, with views of the lake and the surrounding mountains…’ I knew that the scenery that reveals itself after the brief but steep climb would impress me again, almost two years after I completed the loop for the first time. And rightly so I expected the girl to be excited as well, although I hadn’t foreseen her zeal in tiptoeing as close to deer as possible so as to capture them, still from afar, with her smartphone camera. Without zoom function. More stunning vistas, lovely fresh mountain air, a few snowballs that missed their targets by a league, and ever more pictures made up the remainder of our walk and it was with much post-hike satisfaction that we checked into our lodge late in the afternoon. Very conveniently located next to the awesome Heather restaurant Marjolein and I were lucky enough to get a lovely little apartment which was cosy and warm upon arrival. Three hours of reading, showering and napping constituted the perfect reward of our efforts and fully refreshed we sat down for dinner at eight in the evening. The great food and spotless service proved that my happy memories of dining there two years ago with Koen and Luijkx were rightly so positive and three and a half hours later just after we had finished our complementary Baileys it was time to tuck in for the night. The ‘full Irish’ that Marjolein had been talking about from Friday afternoon was finally served Sunday morning and kept us going until well into the afternoon. Driving back the same route we now did see all the cool mountain scenery around us and we couldn’t help but stop a few times in order to appreciate the tranquillity that the landscape around us inspired, only partially spoiled by empty beer cans that plebs must have left behind when roaming the area. One last cup of tea at home and tjop tjop Marjolein on the bus and back on the plane to the Netherlands. Our next reunion shall definitely be sooner than after 18 months and I must admit I already look forward to it! Thanks for visiting kid!