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Since I was a kid I have been writing stories. Narratives about fictional characters in made-ups worlds, within the infinite realm of my fantasies. Now I write about my real life adventures, about the results of my yearning to see as much of the world as I can possibly combine with a career and regularly seeing friends and family. These stories are primarily a recollection of my own memories, as I am keen to preserve as many details of my foreign adventures as possible, lest the images I try to recall years later inevitably become blurred. As a positive externality, the result may be a pleasant read for the interested outsider. I hope you will enjoy my blog.

Tony Grifone

Sunday, 23 August 2015

Summer nights


There was certainly a risk involved, planning to spend four consecutive hours in a park in Dublin on a summer evening. Presently, from my seat at the Starbucks in Rathmines, I can see the rain pouring down outside. For now this only complements the snug feeling that my massive cappuccino and the Sunday morning music already initiated. Should we have experienced such a downpour last Thursday however, I can imagine that the word ‘snug’ would have been the last on my mind. But Ana Marija’s determined insistence that it wouldn’t rain that night, based on one out of several conflicting weather forecasts, proved justified. And so the open air cinema in Merrion Square was a success.


At about three quarters of the Grand Budapest Hotel I managed to tear my eyes away from the screen in order to soak up the scene around me. You know, another one of those moments that you ‘step out’ of the situation in order to fully appreciate what is going on. The top floors of the 200-year old Georgian houses lining the square were visible above the trees in Merrion Square, bathing in the yellow glow of the street lights. Darkness had already set (lest we wouldn’t have been able to see the screening) and the sky was a concoction of ominous clouds and streaks of dark night sky. Occasional gusts of wind, met by shivers on my right side, blew the clouds apart before they had a chance to congregate into a decent force. The temperature was still pleasant however, and we were surrounded by a happy crowd of people sitting on blankets, eating their picnics, drinking their non-alcoholic beverages, and collectively enjoying the movie. An oasis of green in the heart of Dublin, on a summer night, enjoying the simple things in life. Such was the realisation, and my gaze drifted back to the screen. It was a movie worth watching after all.



Monday, 17 August 2015

The Aran Islands with the lads

[note: this blog post is best read with the following playlist: i) The Weeknd - Can't feel my face, ii) Calvin Harris & Disciples - How deep is your love and iii) Johnny Cash - Burning ring of fire]


Wow! It was one of those weekends. One of those long weekends where summer is the buzz word and everything seems to come together at the right time. Where plans work out according to plan and brilliant impulses cover gaps in the schedule better than any pre-orchestrated plot could have. It was near midnight last Thursday when the boys arrived in Dublin city centre, and after 685 kilometres on the road, two 8-minute flights, loads of cycling, 105 pints, and one mango smoothie the weekend has just come to an end. It was magical. Let’s reminisce. Let’s re-live. Let’s share the story.


It was an early wake-up Friday morning at 7 o’clock. First of all I am not used to waking up that early on neither week days nor weekends, and secondly I had only had five hours of sleep. As the lads arrived only close to midnight at the hostel the night prior, we were lucky enough to find a bar that still served customers and celebrated the start of what was going to be a marvellous trip with our first round of Guinness. While I had expected some delay on the lads’ behalf the next morning, I nevertheless found myself at the crossroads we were supposed to meet at at eight, waited for 15 minutes, gave out to the culprits when they finally showed up, and set off towards county Clare. First stop: Obama Plaza near Moneygall for some Irish breakfast (sausages, scrambled eggs, pudding) and some confused glances at a huge photograph of the president of the USA holding a picture of his Irish ancestor (who ever convinced him of that?). After another 1.5 hours on the road we were all very keen to get out of the car, some for reasons of the prospect of surfing, others for the lack of room to move / breathe / blink. An Audi A4 is a big enough car, but trust me, with 5 lads our size things get very tight in there.


Conditions in Lahinch were perfect. Rolling waves, sunrays making their way through the clouds, green rolling hills on either side of the bay and loads of surfing. After having ridden a wave all to the end, one was tempted not to waste any time lingering but rather fight its way back to where another great wave could be caught. But every now and again I held off before plunging into the water again. Look around Tony. Breathe in the fresh sea air, taste the salt on your lips, take in all this beauty around you and realise it’s the Atlantic Ocean you are gazing at. Be conscious of your amazing surroundings and enjoy it that little bit extra. Get that additional sense of happiness and gratefulness that comes with realising what you have and how much you should cherish that. And then that next wave is even better. After two tremendous hours and with the tide rising we reluctantly left the water, wondered how to get clean & dry without showers or towels, and squeezed into the car again. The natural wonders of driving along the coast and through the Burren were a treat to the eye, and Paal and I enthusiastically pointed out rewarding views and cool rock formations. The lads in the back, to varying degrees, decided to give their eyes a rest instead, and saved energy for what was going to be a great evening out in Galway City.


Freshly showered and dressed to the nines we first enjoyed a hearty meal (burgers, steak, fish ‘n chips), and then set off to the Quays for some great live music (first downstairs, then upstairs in the club). We switched from Guinness to Hophouse, Boonman proved his French magnet also works in the West of Ireland, and we finished the night only when the club closed and we were ushered out of the premises into the street. With more beers in our bellies and less sleep than the night before, the alarm clock the next morning rang agonisingly early at half seven. In hindsight, as we ended up being 1.5 hours early for our flight at Connemara Airport, we could have extended our night’s rest with what surely would have been a much valued extra hour. But hey, then we wouldn’t have taken a walk around the airport, taken selfies with donkeys, and attempted to build a dam in a river. Loads of fun, and I got away with mixing up the flight itinerary.


With the bulk of our body weight at the wings and a smirking Italian lad next to the pilot, we set off towards Inishmor, where we landed about eight minutes after take-off. Awesome! And much better than being stuck on a ferry for an hour and a half with i) a hangover and ii) a crowd that includes a multitude of American tourists and a hen party or two. The next 24 hours were pure bliss. The weather picked up, from overcast and a few rays of sun to blue skies with only scattered clouds, and we started our stay on the biggest of the Aran Islands with a big lunch (fish ‘n chips, chowders, pizza). As our Dutch origins blended perfectly well with the modus operandi of transport on the island (bikes), we cycled crisscross through fields, past drystone walls, and up hills. 


Highlights were the well preserved remnants of ancient fortresses and the stunning views that came with them. In the evening we watched part of a rugby game, opted for a meal with a price tag that wouldn’t degrade us to poor and penniless before the holidays were over (fast food, burger, chips with cheese), and watched some live music in a local pub. When the four square meters in front of our chairs got congested with a crowd of rather voluminous females, awkwardly balancing on high heels while guzzling away a multitude of alcoholic beverages, I decided to call it a day and catch 8 hours of sleep for a change. The others tried in vain to catch a glimpse of the band through the forest of tightly wrapped flesh but followed me up rather swiftly when the unfeasibility of that endeavour became apparent. Exhausted, well fed and with our thirst quenched, and blissfully happy, I fell asleep in my way too small bed on a rather poor mattress. And we’re only halfway. Boom boom boom.


Sunday was more of Saturday but with even better weather (and less cycling). With a packed lunch we set off towards the most spectacular cliffs and spend three hours walking around, sitting in the sun, admiring the view, eating our lunch (ham, sandwich, cheese), taking pictures, gazing around some more, while creating a mental picture of how astonishingly beautiful Inishmor is. It is a picture that will last a lifetime. After a round of Guiness we were collected by the bus driver, driven to the airport, tjop tjop 8 minute flight, into the car, and off to Birr, county Offaly. Oh no wait. Why don’t we watch the hurling semi-final in a local pub? Galway play Tipperary. If there’s one way to impress those oblivious of Gaelic sports it’s a game of Hurling. Fast, technical yet physical, and completely new to most of the lads, the second half we got to see was an experience well worth postponing our arrival in Birr for. With the locals cheering for every point Galway scored, and the winning goal scored in the very last minute received by joyous celebrations in the snug little pub we found ourselves in, this is a hurling game that I will not easily forget.


Birr on a Sunday evening isn’t bustling. But hey, that’s alright. With a class dinner in the local Indian restaurant (garlic naan, butter chicken, tiger beer) and a round of Guinness we got all we needed to sink into the big soft beds at the Maltings House for a great night’s sleep.


This morning (it’s still Monday now that I write this, after just having dropped off the lads at the airport) we woke up at half seven in order to be present for breakfast at eight. Why so early? Well, because we had a great game of golf scheduled at Castle Barna Golf club. The hostess of the B&B proved why the unit gets a 9.1 rating on Booking as she very kindly served us a super filling and tasty Irish breakfast (eggs, bacon, pudding), which went down very well with the fresh fruit & yoghurt (strawberries, moor berries, apple). With the weather still keeping up we walked a very pretty golf course, had lunch in the sun (burger, bun, chips) and drove back to Dublin. And then, while we had constantly cherished how long the weekend was taking and how much time we still had ahead of us and how it felt like we had been away for two weeks already, suddenly it was over. Bags out of the trunk, hugs at the airport, and that was it. What a trip. It was one of those weekends.


Koen: ‘Hoe heet dat ook alweer waar alles klein is?’
Teun: ‘Madurodam. Voor jou is alles klein’

Tuesday, 4 August 2015

Summer in the Netherlands

With the customary 30 minutes delay (Aer Lingus’s trademark) I landed last Friday afternoon at Schiphol Airport. Behind me I left dark and gloomy Dublin, where a splendid month of June had been followed up by a horrendous July with an average temperature below 14 degrees Celsius. Luckily the welcome in the Netherlands was warm in multiple ways. The evening set off at The Parade with Karine, David and Merel. Queueing for a while and paying the 7.5 euros entrance fee had raised expectations somewhat for what appeared to be an odd collection of tents, tables, chairs, food stalls and many, many hippies. And children. Loads of children. I still don’t really get the point of it all, but seeing my friends in combination with (tiny) beers and tasty food made the location rather inconsequential. What will stand me by for a while to come however is the performance we got to enjoy for a euro ('sorry we ran out of match sticks. When they ask for your ticket just hold two fingers down'). To be honest, by the time we had finished our dinner and had had a few drinks, the temperature had gone down significantly, and I involuntarily regretted ignoring Karine’s earlier advice of taking a coat. Well, we squared that one when I won a bet later on that night and earnt a bottle of wine! Anyway, the main reason for paying the euro was that we could warm up with a few dozen other people in a tiny shack, where we were treated a 20-minute play by some kids who were still in school learning how to become actors. Well, plenty to learn still ;). Whereas this show was very much the last push for David and myself to leave the Parade and take shelter in a warm pub somewhere, Karine and Merel seemingly hadn’t had enough. So while the two of us were drinking craft beers at Oliver, the ladies enjoyed some more 1 euro shows and teamed up with us later on that night. When Oliver closed (earlier than usual) I bade my goodbyes to David, whom I probably won’t see for a while given his imminent move far far away, and continued with Karine in a wine bar at Neude. When also that wine bar closed a few hours later it was only a cold 5 minute bike ride to Karine’s awesome new house where we had a very very last drink which eventually proved to be the one drink too many and made me feel slightly hungover the next day. A long shower and great breakfast sped up the recovery process significantly though, as did the bottle of ice cold weisner that I cracked open with Alex at Stadhuisplein not long thereafter. After a few hours Alex was replaced by Wendela while the sun kept on shining, and in great spirits I left for Amsterdam early that evening. With the Gay Pride in full swing in our capital, the streets and squares were buzzing with life and music. After having met up with Raymon and Gunter we had a few drinks in a few different bars whereafter we ended up at Rembrandtplein, which hosted a big festival. I am usually not the biggest fan of packed streets, crowds of drunks and streets littered so badly you can hardly see the pavement, but I must admit the combination of good music and great vibe among the crowd dancing and partying made for a very enjoyable experience. 


Joined by Teuni and a mate of the lads we then set off towards a club I can’t remember the name of. ‘Last time I tried to enter we were denied access because we were overdressed’. Raymon warily eyed my purple trousers and blue buttoned-up shirt. ‘They don’t like shirts in there. You had better take yours off’. And there I went, in my t-shirt, shirt folded up under my arm, wearing Gunter’s leather jacket on top. Better safe than sorry and a few minutes later we were rocking on the dance floor, shirt back on, and drinking cold bottles of Heineken. The next morning I felt remarkably similar to the day prior but also here my hosts made me a superb breakfast which swiftly wiped away any traces of hangover and headache. With the knowledge that the evening, scheduled with Anja, Tommie and Angela, would feature one or two drinks as well, I decided to give my body a break and the afternoon with Manon, Iris, Minke, Roelant and Bob was spent on orange juice and coffee. Manon had picked a splendid location at the water, a short boat ride away from Amsterdam Central Station, and it was there that we enjoyed the view and a catch-up on each other’s lives. As with all my little reunions, time went by faster than was desired and it really felt more like 45 minutes rather than 3 hours later when I bade my farewells. Hop on the boat and hop on the train and off to Schiphol, where Tommie and Angela picked me up on their way to Noordwijk. With the sun still shining brilliantly we were received warmly by Anja. Not for the first time this weekend the thought ‘I could live here’ struck me, as Anja had secured a beautiful apartment with a spacious balcony. 


Cold white wine at that very balcony kicked off an evening which would take us to Dutch for dinner and back to Anja’s for some limoncello to finish the evening in style. I experienced the best hangover cure of the weekend by taking an early morning swim in the sea with Anja the next morning after which I lounged on the deckchair on the balcony all day. Well, not all day, as we went to have lunch at the beach, but yes the rest of my Monday until 18:00 was spent in the sun with a newspaper and a glass of water. Anja was kind enough to drop me off at Schiphol and after a goodbye hug I made my way to the gate where, surprise surprise, my Aer Lingus flight was delayed. Awesome weekend catching up with friends, thanks everyone for the lovely time. And of course a blog post wouldn’t be complete with a quote to top it all off with:

(about not being allowed to smoke in the restaurant)
·       ‘Waarom zou dat niet mogen? We zitten toch buiten.’
·       ‘Nee dit telt niet als buiten.’
·       ‘Nou als het regent word ik nat’



Monday, 13 July 2015

Looking back at the summer of 2015

Dear future Tony. When you read this a few years from now, when reminiscing your time in Ireland, then recall the summer of 2015 and the quality of life you enjoyed at the time. You decided to spend most of June, July and August on the Emerald Island, rather than flying out every weekend. This makes sense of course, as the weather is least likely to be absolutely horrible this time of the year. Well past Tony, so far that has been a good choice. The weather in June has been magnificent, and the past weeks you played football in Fairview Park every Saturday and mostly one evening a week as well. Even now that the weather has adopted a more Irish nature again, this week’s game is expected to take place nonetheless. And this is not the only exercise you are exposing yourself to, oh no. You are remarkably successful in keeping up your weekly visit to the gym, for either a ‘functional training class’ or 50-odd lanes in the pool. Usually there’s a chilling out session in the steamer or jacuzzi (or both) involved afterwards. As a little reward, you know. Not bad! Also you have tried to pick up Tag rugby, which has been less successful. The team you joined for the 9-week competition showed a remarkable lack of team spirit, which was only matched by the lacklustreness of some of the opponents. Like last week’s, who didn’t even show up. You may recall that past Tony was quite happy for the tag season to have finished, and he doesn’t intend to join again next season. But hey, whether that happened is only something future Tony knows at this time. Evenings which are not filled with these activities are usually filled up with other events of a social nature, such as last week when Josh visited for an evening (a living souvenir from Albania), the Taste of Dublin and the Rabo football event. And yes, the weekends. Weekends spent in Dublin was quite a novelty for past Tony, as he used to be away all the time. Not this summer. Or well, not all the time. And how he is enjoying it! The past Saturdays have been long and filled with drinks, music and laughter. Such as last week when Xavi took you to a house party, or last Saturday when a house warming lasted until Sunday morning. Summer in Dublin, it’s not that bad. It’s not bad at all. 

Monday, 29 June 2015

Ballyconneely III


For the third time I found myself in the privileged position to pay a visit to one of my favourite places in Ireland. Tucked away in the bog lands of western county Galway, with the Atlantic on all sides, and the mainland dotted with lakes, lies the sprawling village of Ballyconneely. This time however I didn’t find myself being driven across Ireland in a slick BMW (Padraic) or sporty Alfa Romeo (Aidan), as my bike and I boarded the 18:30 train to Galway city last Friday evening. Given the beautiful weather we have had in Dublin over the past weeks, I was under the impression that summer had finally come to Ireland. Well, it has come to Dublin. The west coast is a completely different story. And since I cycled from Galway to Ballyconneely, that mattered.


Saturday morning, eight o’clock. I wake up, bewildered, realising it’s an hour later than I had intended to rise. Since I had been nagging the owner of the place about breakfast ‘as early as possible’ and her response that ‘the earliest I can do for you is half seven’ I felt slightly guilty. An hour later however I found myself well fed and properly equipped on my hybrid, with a backpack full of bananas and sports drinks, repair kit and hand pump included just in case, heading off west on the coastal road. Four hours later I arrived at Melani’s place. Soaked. Whatever rain I didn’t see in Dublin since coming back from Albania, well, I caught up with that last Saturday, as an INCESSANT DOWNPOUR accompanied me for AT LEAST half the time on the road. Ok… ‘incessant downpour’ might be a bit of an exaggeration, as it didn’t quite compare with the showers I remember from the rainy season in New Delhi. There, when the first mega droplet exploded in the dust right in front of your feet, you knew you had five seconds to look for shelter lest you might as well jump in a pool with all your clothes on. So it wasn’t that bad. But then again, it wasn’t 40 degrees Celsius, as in Delhi. It was just warm enough not to be cold when working your way through the gorgeous landscape of Connemara. Cause whatever wind and rain is thrown at you, the scenery is still very pretty.


Arriving at Melani’s place I got a very warm welcome and a very welcome warm lunch. An hour later, with food in my belly and after a hot shower, I felt reborn like a phoenix and happily sat down to prepare the ingredients she would use for making pancakes at the Roundstone market the next day. Glad to be at least a little bit useful rather than being just a freeriding liability I sliced ham, peppers and onions while Melani prepared the batter. Later in the afternoon we were joined by Joane and her niece for a walk in an area I forgot the name of, whereafter Melani and I stocked up wine and bites for the evening and sat down at a cool pub at the bay for a pint. What had hitherto appeared to be a remote and sparsely populated area to me, which it is to be honest, I now got a flavour of the very active community that lives there and the range of nationalities that jointly make for a nicely varied crowd. From the old lady in the supermarket who told us to ‘stop arguing’ to the chatty people in the bay-side bar, the people in Connemara seem an assertive and happy bunch. Meanwhile the rain was only intensifying, which by now didn’t matter anymore as really all we were going to do was sit inside, eat, and drink.

A lovely dish prepared by Joane, in conjunction with Melani’s oven-grilled chicken, proved more than enough food to satisfy the appetite of four adults and four kids, with the leftovers being enough to feed an orphanage for a week. Irish coffees (plural) for desert and a wide variety of red wine completed the culinary experience and it was well after midnight when we called it a day. Melani offered Nick a bed for the night so he wouldn’t have to drive home and I am quite confident to say that we all feel asleep as soon as our heads hit the pillow.


The next morning I was woken up by a cat that climbed on top of me. With the wind howling outside and my tongue feeling like a dried piece of leather, the prospect of cycling another 100km back to Galway didn’t particularly appeal to me. With Melani off to the market and me sitting in an empty house I decided that if I was going to cycle the whole way back I might as well start straight away. Great views and great weather lasted for about 20 minutes whereafter the clouds moved back in and I took the N59 back to Galway (back home I had been too lazy to navigate the way back which forced me to take the main road). Fortunately the wind that had been quite a challenge on the way there had only gained in strength and was now pushing me back east. Going 30 km/hour there was no need for me to do any work all the way Oughterard with a strong tailwind pushing me through the rolling hills. From there the road turned which made the last 25km the hardest ones, but all in all the three hours cycling back weren’t quite as challenging as the first leg had been. Luckily, as my body wasn’t quite up to it. Arriving in Galway well ahead of schedule, the staff of Kinlay hostel proved that my previous positive experience with them wasn’t a one-off as they let me have a shower and hang out in the common room free of charge. There’s worse ways reminiscing a great weekend and a nice exercise than in a soft sofa, reading the economist and sipping a can of coke. Six o’clock, tjop tjop back on the train to Dublin, and home at nine. Cycling in Connemara, even with atrocious weather, well worth the trip. Thanks Melani for the great stay!!



Nick: ‘She doesn’t swim in the sea because the fish fuck in it’
Melani: ‘Not fuck Nick, swim.. SWIM’
Nick: ‘Well oh eh that’s what you told me’
Melani: ‘I was joking Nick’

Thursday, 25 June 2015

Blissful summer nights

Flashbacks to a time that long since passed brought me back to my childhood days last Tuesday evening. As a kid growing up in a semi-rural environment, without smartphones or computers, the long summer holidays were spent outdoors. It usually involved playing football at the local playground, where all the children from the village would gather for a game that lasted until twilight turned into darkness and you could barely see the ball or your friends on the pitch. The final set of what seemed like endless games of ping pong at the camping site in France was similarly forced upon us by dusk, and plans were always enthusiastically made for the next day. In my memories these evenings were warm, a pleasant warm summer night, that would allow you to run around in shorts and still be comfortable. Whenever you were sent to bed by your parents it always felt too early, cause it had only just gotten dark? The lengthened exposure to daylight over the summer holidays only magnified the endless energy you seem to have as a child and the summer holidays seemed to last forever. No worries, no responsibilities, and the blissful ignorance of what those words really mean.


Last Tuesday was a bit like that. One of the lads with whom I usually play on Saturdays had the brilliant thought of making the most of these long summer evenings by organising a weekday kick-around as well. The venue was Fairview Park, as usual, and the scene was very reminiscent of those old days when you were playing football with your friends. The sultry summer evening that is really not that typical for Dublin and the blend of South American and Mediterranean accents on the pitch made for a scene that could have been anywhere in the world. But no, this really is Ireland, it is summer in Dublin with already three weeks of very pleasant weather in a row. It is almost as if it will never end. But like back in the days, when the beginning of a new year of school was looming in the distance, I know that sooner or later this spell of good weather will be swallowed up by some incessant downpour. Better enjoy it now that we have the chance, I can’t wait for the next game. 

Tuesday, 9 June 2015

Land of Blood and Honey


Which is what the Turks supposedly call the Balkans. I don’t know if it’s true, but it does make for a cool blog post title. Bar two separate trips to two of the Balkans’ biggest cities (Belgrade in 2006 and Zagreb in 2012), the area was rather unknown to me. Emphasise the past tense, as I embarked on a 10-day journey to Albania two weeks ago. Now a massive red flag with a two-headed black eagle (once the banner of Skanderbeg’s house and now Albania’s national flag) adorns a wall in my bedroom, and I listen to Albanian music while writing this blog post. Albania, you have been wonderful. I’ll be back.


The journey basically consisted of two separate legs. During the first five days it was worn and sun-bleached shorts, t-shirts that had started to disintegrate a good while ago and would receive disapproving looks from slum dwellers, and either flip flops or hiking boots (depending on the activity). I found myself on the top of the towering Accursed Mountains, trekking through valleys, on the roof of a boat crossing lakes, and sleeping in dorm rooms. The deceiving sensation of complete liberty made me forget about life in an office for a while, which makes the blow of reality upon homecoming all the harder. The second leg was of a more urban nature, and featured sipping cocktails, shopping for clothes (sort of a necessity as my attire made me feel uncomfortable anywhere close to civilisation), and dining out, all in very privileged company. Curious? Well, there we go. A 10-day deep dive of Albanian food, nature, and people.


The start of the journey was slightly ominous, as I was still finding splinters of glass in my clothes and hair that evening when undressing for a night’s sleep in one of Munich’s less eccentric airport hotels. On the way to Dublin’s airport, our bus, which was already half an hour late, got further delayed as some north-side hooligan decided to throw a stone through one of the windows. Luckily nobody got hurt, but the extra delay was not welcome at all. Well, from then it got only better. I did make my flight to Munich that night and after a 12-hour stopover boarded the plane to Tirana the next morning. The adventure had begun.


My first impression of Albanian people was positive and would only be reaffirmed over the next ten days (bar a few modest exceptions). The taxi drivers touting for clients outside the airport’s gates were polite and didn’t press when told thanks but no thanks. The one with whom I eventually agreed on a price agreed to drop me off at a bus to Skoder, as that was where I had a dorm bed booked for the night. Please note the ‘a bus’ as there’s no designated bus terminals in Albania and you pretty much rely on locals’  knowledge of where what bus departs from. Well, there’s an agreement that could cause friction in many ways. Traveling in the likes of India and Morocco an ‘unexpected’ event would invariably occur, likely a quarrel about the previously agreed price because of some i) road works, ii) unmentioned taxes, iii) extra levy for the bag, iv) you name it. Your man might pretend not to have change or he would drop you off at the hotel of a cousin (‘I need to get on the bus, not to a hotel’). Experiences as such have made me a cautious and somewhat cynical traveller when venturing off to unknown and faraway lands. Well, that quickly vanished in Albania. After consulting some men hanging around a café, the taxi driver dropped me off at the corner of the street, whereafter one of the blokes walked me to the white minibus waiting to be filled up. No quarrel about the price. The man who helped me get to the bus nodded his goodbyes after making sure I got my seat, and I paid the same price as my Albanian co-passengers. Throughout my entire journey I found Albanian people helpful, kind, and honest. From that first experience I shook off the guarded cynicism that is required in some countries, retained a healthy dose of common sense, and entered Skoder with an open mind. Hello Albania. Welcome Tony.


Traveling by bus in foreign destinations, or even better, by train, is one of my favourite pastimes. It is like watching a movie; constantly changing scenery, accompanied by matching sounds and scents, make for an experience that tickles all the senses. Gazing out of the window of the minibus I saw the outskirts of Tirana slowly give way to green rolling hills, dotted with detached and multi-storeyed houses. Another positive surprise. Albania appeared a lot more developed than I had expected. Big houses on green plots of land, with fruit trees and cattle around, suggested a pleasant lifestyle for those who lived there. As Erio told me later that day, this is at least partially a façade. ‘What good is a big house if you can’t even afford the electricity for it?’ And I did recognise his observation that many of them had not been finished (yet), with the ground floor for instance being inhabited while the first floor still required completion. As an Albanian who had, until recently, lived for 15 years in Italy and Sweden, Erio was sceptical of the perceived progress his country had booked in the meantime. He complained about poor governance, corruption and nepotism. Over a refreshing soda we had a refreshing discussion on Albanian politics. And however much I value the insights he shared with me, I can’t help but being positively impressed with what I saw during my trip. Especially with Albanians. Cause how did I end up having a drink with Erio? Because he asked me. He saw me in the streets taking pictures, recognised me from the bus journey, and invited me to have a drink with him. First day in Albania. Wow. If this is the precedent of what’s to come, lucky me. It was.


Upon arrival in the ‘Mi casa e tu casa’ hostel I was welcomed by Drini in what I came to appreciate as an, ehm, very, well, characteristic way. ‘What do you want?’ Well. ‘I booked a room.’ Mutual observing. ‘Ok come here’. Pours me a shot of raki. ‘Drink. Well done. Welcome.’ The hostel turned out to be a very pleasant place to be. The main lounge had comfy sofas, a bar with bar stools, a table tennis table, a hammock, loads of cats, the occasional dog, art + artists… all that you need and more. The evening was spent at that very bar, drinking raki and beer with amongst others Josh from the States and Ben from France, who made us a very tasty pie with pancakes for dessert. Whereas at the time my appreciation for raki was still limited to it being ‘Albanian’, ‘traditional’ and ‘alcoholic’, I admit that from the next morning onwards I added ‘no hangover’ to a list of plusses that would grow up and till my last day in Albania when I searched in vain for bottles to take home. Bad luck, nearly all Albanian raki is home-distilled. Not commercialised. Everybody drinks it, everybody makes it at home. I love it, even though it does prevent me from taking it with me.


Hangover-free I was collected from the hostel at 6 in the morning (Albanians are indeed early risers!) for a ride to lake Komani. The loop that the area is famous for is from Skhoder to Komani, Fierze, Valbona, Theth and ultimately back to Skhoder (lest it wouldn’t be a loop). The cool thing about the whole journey is that it cannot be completed by car; from Komani to Fierze you have to go by boat and in between Valbona and Theth a massive mountain range without tunnels makes hiking (or flying) the only way to complete the whole thing. The 6 o’clock pick-up could have been 7 or 8 as well in order to make it to the 9 o’clock ferry (which actually left at half 9 at the earliest) if it hadn’t been for the driver stopping in every village so he could chat with locals, load and unload some baggage and drink coffee. While slightly resenting the whole procedure (I would have loved an hour or more in my bed), the scene in the village was amusing enough to witness. It slightly reminded me of India; locals who would get up at the most impossible hour, only to hang out in the main street of their village, chatting with their neighbours, and scrubbing the floor of their shops that don’t need scrubbing. Why get up so early if you have nothing useful to do anyway? Eventually the ‘dieci minuti’ had passed (it was more like 45 minutes) and off we went, with some extra passengers on board, across the first serious mountains, to lake Komani.


‘One of the world’s great boat trips’ is how the 3 hour journey is advertised. Well, I don’t disagree, although I haven’t been on too many mind blowing boat rides so I mightn’t be the one to make this comparison. What it did remind me of is the 3 day (!) boat ride over the Yangtze (?) river in China, through the so called ‘three gorges’. Mountains rising from both sides of the river, sometimes narrow, sometimes broader, with the prettiest scenery and a multifold of green colours overlapping after every turn, make for a very enjoyable journey. While waiting for the boat I struck up a conversation with Jen and Mike, from the USA and Brazil respectively, who were on a slightly longer journey than I was (a year). Albania appeared a suitable travel destination to make new backpacker friends not long after you said your goodbyes to your old ones, and I stuck with my new friends until they left Valbona the day after. After being amazed by the scenery for about half an hour on the back of the boat, I got the ingenious idea to follow some Czech youths up to the roof for an even more spectacular 360 view of the natural bounties around us. With my backpack propped up behind me, the brilliant sun shining down on me, while chewing on the ‘nuts for snack’ that Jen had brought along, we slowly drifted to Fierze. What a way to travel.



A few km before Fierze the drifting came to a halt however and we were dropped off at some random docking point next to a dusty road. All the Albanians on the boat had apparently arranged for transport, which left us gazing around for a way to get out of there. Luckily a tour operator full of tourists from the capital had a few empty seats in his minibus which he offered to us ‘at a price that you deem fair’. Cool! ‘I don’t do this for myself, nor for you.. I do this for Albania’. I like it. Some consciousness about creating a positive image for travellers! With less legroom than on the average South American bus we set off towards Valbona, where it took us a while to find the guesthouse with whom I had arranged for two nights’ stay. Tasty home cooked dinners, fresh fish, freshly baked bread, locally sourced ingredients and imported Kosovan beer made for a splendid combination which left me well-nourished during my stay in the valley. After two days I was more than ready to move on however, especially with the prospects of getting to cross the mighty mountain range that separated us from Theth. Along with being on foreign public transport, hiking, and especially hiking uphill, is really one of my favourite activities. Especially in an area as stunning as the Accursed Mountains.





‘What about the pass between here and Theth?’
‘Full of snow’
‘Really’
‘Yes. Apparently there’s a shortcut. But I haven’t been there yet this year’
‘Ok. Let’s take a guide’
The guide turned out to be a teenage boy who hadn’t been to the pass yet either that year. Luckily I found two Polish travellers, Agnieszka and Pawel, willing to share the costs of the guide for the journey uphill, to get us past the snowy bits. Eventually there wasn’t too much snow around, but some expertise in crossing the nasty bits was very welcome, as a wrong step could be fatal. So the boy did come in handy.


In Theth we found a pleasant home stay with a local boy named Vincent and his mother, at whose house we ate and slept that night. When dusk slowly set in, and rain and thunder engulfed the valley, I sat on the balcony next to Agnieszka and Pawel, mesmerised by the spectacle in front of us. After dinner and some raki (I still didn’t really like it) I decided to call it a day as the following morning would feature another early wake up. Vincent’s confusing references as per whether there would be a bus going to Skoder and if so at what time left me eager to go out early and find out for myself, as my schedule wouldn’t allow for another night in Theth, however lovely the scenery. Eventually I secured a ride with some bloke in a 4-wheel-drive, which wasn’t a luxury given the state of the road leading out of Theth. Definitely worth the tenner I paid for that, and I did feel pity for the people in the back of the ramshackle old minibus that passed us on the way (so there was a bus!).


Back in Skhoder I immediately headed for the hostel I had stayed in the first night, where I was welcomed warmly by the staff who had evidently not forgotten about me. It felt a little like homecoming, to be returning to a cosy and warm place with happy memories after a few days out in the mountains. I had just about managed to put all my dirty clothes in the washing machine when Margareth from Canada introduced herself and her friend Sara and invited me for a bike ride along lake Skhoder. Apart from these two ladies our company comprised two Norwegian lads and Drini, who accompanied us on his shiny red Vespa while we peddled our ramshackle old bikes. ‘I wouldn’t be surprised if one of these bikes fell apart before we get there’. My words proved painfully accurate, as Margareth’s bike saw its chain snap and drop, not too far from our final destination. Well, those last 10 minutes could as well be covered on foot, and anyway the place was so beautiful it would have been worth crawling the whole way from our hostel. After about half an hour’s cycle along the shores of the lake, with beautiful vistas over the smooth blue water, mountains in the background and small fishermen’s boats dotting the lake, the paved road came to an end and a dusty track was all that remained. Carefully hidden from many a tourist’s eye but well known to locals, a concrete building just off the dusty trail was home to an old man who was frying freshly caught fish for hungry swimmers. Perfect. After an hour on the bike, in about 30 degrees Celcius, we were all longing for a dive in the lake that had been looking more and more appealing the further we cycled. The water was lovely, and from it the surrounding mountains looked even more spectacular. 


After a refreshing swim we sat down for lunch on the roof of the concrete building, enjoying the freshly grilled fish, the captivating views, and the nice people at our table. A big advantage to Albania is that it attracts a certain type of traveller, and most of the people I encountered had their own interesting stories and experiences. Mostly backpackers, with a yearning for traveling that I recognised all too well, I found myself in very pleasant company almost all the time. Apart from the guesthouse in Valbona, I didn’t come across the stereotyped German tourist in their late fifties, who travels by tour bus and walks around in mid-calf length trousers and sandals. Any sight of those is usually a cue for me to move on and explore somewhere further, as any such destination has obviously become too accessible and is in the process of falling victim to the disease of mass tourism. Well, fortunately very little of that in Albania. Hopefully for a good while to come.


Post-awesome-lunch my stay in Skhoder comprised cold beer in the city centre, ice cream from a remnant of the Soviet Union, super tasty dinner at Peja, a tour of the ‘small streets of Skhoder’ as Drini put it, and some drinks at ‘the Black Sheep’  to finish the night with. The next morning I resented the idea of leaving this lovely hostel and these lovely people with whom I had had such a nice time, but eventually I bade my farewells and took off in search of transport back to Tirana. ‘Where will I find a bus to take me to the capital?’ I asked Drini. ‘No need. Just walk to the roundabout with your backpack on your back. Don’t worry, the bus will find you. Sometimes I find myself on a bus to Tirana even when I don’t want to.’ Ok, that sounds easy. It was. Ready for another movie.


And that was the first leg of my journey. The second leg was all about Marisa and our mini-Erasmus ’06 reunion, after three years (!) of not having seen one another. Some things change, others never do. Our tendency to constantly encounter funny moments that ask to be written down in a quote seems to have only increased over the past nine years. Instead of attempting to catch the spirit of our travels in blossoming sentences I may therefore instead stick to the quotes, as they do a much better job of reviving the moments, even years after I read them. Quotes and pictures. Thanks for a lovely long weekend Marisa!


‘Where’s the pyramid??’
‘Imagine there’s a real pyramid just behind this one. With a sphinx next to it. Ohh here it is!’


‘This river looks more like a gutter.’

‘I don’t want to go there.’ (pause) ‘No.’

‘What do we do?’
‘We just hang out here until they approach us with a decent offer.’

Marisa: ‘I’ve done zero research.’
Later on…
Tony: ‘Ok imagine this is Albania (waves vaguely in mid-air) and this is Tirana (point somewhere on the ‘map’)’
Marisa: ‘Ok..’
Tony: ‘What city is this?’ (points somewhere west of Tirana)
Marisa: ‘Durres.’

‘There’s coffee everywhere.’

Being amazed by animal farm:


‘Where are you from?’
‘Holland.’
‘Amsterdam?’
‘No.’

‘Ok lady what is your target market. I don’t think you should aim for millennials.’


Hotel: ‘We only have twin rooms left’
Tony: ‘That’s alright’
(considering to elaborate on the situation)
‘Twins are fine’

(Upon arrival in Berati castle, sat down straight away at the first roof top restaurant, and had a two hour lunch with beer, wine and raki).
(After lunch) Tony: ‘Ok let’s go and explore the castle.’
Marisa: ‘What? Really. I thought we had already done that.’


Which resonated an earlier experience from six years ago:
<China 2009 revamp>
Marisa about the Forbidden City in Beijing: ‘I don’t want to see it, I just want to have been here.’

Luckily I have in the meantime learnt how to deal with this attitude…
Tony: ‘Ok let me give you a carrot. If we go and explore, we’ll come back here afterwards and have another raki.’
Marisa: ‘Ok.’

Which led us to a revamp of another old quote:
Tony: ‘Ok Stefan you lost the coin toss. You sleep in the 12 bed male dorm tonight.’ (Belgrade 2006)



‘Lead me!’

‘Do you mind if we… take?’

Waiter: ‘Ok do you want a raki for a girl, for a boy, or for both?’
Us: ‘both.’
Waiter: ‘Ok. For the girl I have this super sweet, nut based, smooth raki.’
(Tony thinking, I want that)
(Marisa thinking, I don’t want that)
Waiter continues: ‘And for the guy we have a mulberry raki.’ (smiles) ‘Strong.’

'Tonno'
'Yes...'
'Look a village'

'I remember this pace'

(counting back when we last saw each other)
Marisa: 'So that was Berlin, Copenhagen..'
Tony: 'I'm sure you're going to forget one (thinking of the random Schiphol 2-hour coffee meeting)'
Marisa: 'Copenhagen... and then Paris! (forgetting about India and China)'