After an unusually warm spring, an unusually warm summer, an unusually dry fall, and an unusually warm and dry beginning of the winter it has to be said that I am very lucky with my first 10 months here. OR the Irish are not rightfully complaining about their climate. It's December and the other day I was taking a lunch time stroll without a wearing jacket. And just now I was playing tennis -although quite challenging not the most demanding exercise- in shorts and a t-shirt. The evening feels warm like a summer night, and the evergreens surrounding the tennis courts only add to the effect. Winter in Dublin, so far so good!
Welcome!
Since I was a kid I have been writing stories. Narratives about fictional characters in made-ups worlds, within the infinite realm of my fantasies. Now I write about my real life adventures, about the results of my yearning to see as much of the world as I can possibly combine with a career and regularly seeing friends and family. These stories are primarily a recollection of my own memories, as I am keen to preserve as many details of my foreign adventures as possible, lest the images I try to recall years later inevitably become blurred. As a positive externality, the result may be a pleasant read for the interested outsider. I hope you will enjoy my blog.
Tony Grifone
Tuesday, 10 December 2013
Sunday, 8 December 2013
Pre-Christmas in Dublin
Although I generally prefer to be on the move, the
occasional weekend in Dublin could be most enjoyable, as is confirmed once
again over the past days. With the previous weekend in the Netherlands and
Christmas travels coming up I find myself comfortably enjoying a few days in
what is becoming one of my favourite cities in Europe. And while plenty of time is spent
relaxing and chilling out and reading and writing and sleeping and napping and
eating and the like, a bit of exercise is warranted to make one fully
appreciative of all the former. Hence Bo and I decided to set off to a
brisk beach walk yesterday afternoon, hiking from Killiney to Bray. I am under the impression that
the small stretch of land between the low cliff-like sandy hills is only
accessible at low tide, whereas it comprises of rocks and stones that are still
wet from the high tide that was undoubtedly preceding a few hours before. Rather strenuous because of the uneven surface the exercise proved to be quite a
work-out and the reward in the embodiment of a huge burger and a pint of stout
was a very welcome one indeed at the Porterhouse in Bray. Apart from the large
variety of rubbish that the sea was returning to us main land inhabitants we
did spot two remarkable mammals on the way. Whereas I first thought to have
spotted two swimming dogs, it was really two seals that stuck their heads out
of the waves (hence the Dutch word for seal – zeehond!!). After having watched
Liverpool beat West Ham we left the Porterhouse and took a bus back home. Changing
quickly in proper Christmas gear we set off towards the National Concert Hall
where we enjoyed a performance of two century old Wexford Christmas Carols.
Although the performance was all in all quite enjoyable, it featured some odd instruments
including some sort of a musical box. The guy ‘playing’ the box did little else
than turning a sling attached to it which resulted in a high pitched squeaky melody
that was not exactly aligned which the otherwise very capable singer and the
cello which was being played by a hot Irish girl in rather unattractive shoes. Bo
and I enjoyed the more upbeat songs a lot more than the outstretched religious lamenting
but all in all it was 20 Euros well spent. Another good night’s rest and an altogether
more passive day today –insofar possible- with the only workout being an hour or
so on the hybrid as I took James out for the ‘small circle’ i.e. up the Dublin mountains
and circling back to Ranelagh. Despite my three layers of protective clothing I
was still shivering after an intensive headwind climb uphill which didn’t leave
me linger too long at my favourite viewpoint but rather had me thundering
downhill swiftly enough, overtaking cars in an altogether most irresponsible
but all so enjoyable sweeping rush home. With the adrenaline quickly receding
from my blood I put James back in the shed, took a long hot shower, and sank in
the couch next to the newly set-up Christmas tree. Weekends spent in Dublin,
they aint that bad.

Saturday, 30 November 2013
A random Thursday
Scrolling through
my previous blog posts I realise that all I write is about weekends away in
Ireland, weekends abroad, weekends in Dublin and the occasional remarkable
evening in Dublin. Perhaps it is time for a taste of an ordinary day in my
life, one that reflects the more day to day events that keep me going here. Let’s
say last Thursday, which featured a nice confluence of idiosyncratic events
that altogether let me fall asleep fully satisfied that night.
With Bo
abroad for the week and a dentist appointment at half nine in the morning I
could wake up at a time that tasted of weekend. I had had Koen over for a few
days so while I nourished my breakfast cereals he gulped down three times my
quantity in equivalents while preparing for his journey homeward later that
day, endeavouring to fit three “onesies” into a small backpack. After breakfast
we walked towards the junction in Ranelagh from which Koen would continue down
the airport and I walked my casual walk towards the dentist. While the dentist
would be in my top three of least favourable people to visit things could have
been worse and I wasn’t all that depressed leaving the practise in the drizzle
that had meanwhile commenced. Although it has already been nine months since I
started my Dublin life I still try to hold on to the exciting feeling that I am
living abroad and blending in with the local life. A small sparkle of this
feeling suddenly emerged when I answered the dentist’s assistant’s questions
about my address and contact number, realising that all were Irish and that the
girl was Irish and the dentist was Irish and that I was living in Ireland and
doing very ordinarily Irish things like going to the dentist. Holding on to
these feelings keep making me appreciate my life abroad and are one of the
biggest plusses of my current career phase.
Work was
work as usual and sometime during the day Will from ASU asked whether I felt
like replacing a team member that evening for a 5 a side football game. Will joins
in occasionally during our Tuesday lunch session football games and thus knows
how much I like the game. For that Thursday night I had had numerous plans and
ideas, from drinks with Edel to Christmas drinks that a business partner from
work was organising that night to the option I eventually thought to have settled
for: taking a run around the block and having a relaxed evening afterwards
(without drinks and at home). Well football brings the same positive
externalities as a run does and it much more enjoyable which is why I told Will
happily that I’d be there. Unfortunately I didn’t succeed in buying astro shoes
in the hour after work before the game commenced which is how I found myself
walking in studs on what normally is a tennis court. Apart from slightly
painful and disastrous to the quality of my leather Puma King football boots, I
couldn’t run or turn properly which all in all diminished my added value to the
team considerably. All that was left for me was to take shots at the goal,
which is what I did, and luckily to an extend that I am now invited to join the
team for weekly games.
After the
match Pieter would pass by and pick up my golf clubs that two former colleagues
who were visiting for the weekend would like to make use of. Rather than them
passing by we agreed to meet in Smyths in Ranelagh for a drink and while more
and more people joined it was with great discipline that after three pints
while the clock approached midnight that I called it a day and went home to
sleep.
A random
Thursday full of energising bits and pieces which make Dublin feel at home and
me feel very happy to live there!
Saturday, 23 November 2013
London and surroundings with Dana
My visit to London wasn’t all about Vasiliki (see post
below). On the contrary, the lion’s share of my time was spent with another living
souvenir from the Indian subcontinent. Dana and I arrived at the same time at
the international airport in New Delhi and were treated the same reception by a
gang of Indian AIESECers who took us to their favourite hangout where they during
the course of the afternoon smoked a package of cigarettes each. From that day
late in August 2008 on I stayed in Delhi until my departure in February of the
following year, whereas Dana’s programme took her to various places in India
where she got to spend a month here and a month there, only to return to Delhi
by the time the incessant heat had given way to more bearable late autumn
temperatures. It was only four years later when I moved to London for a few months
that we got back in touch and it was now with great pleasure that I got to
spend another weekend in her presence. As we discovered during our weekend in
the peak district that we share a common passion for hikes (link),
Dana had spotted a 15 km walking route around Winsor castle. The perfect
combination of exercise, fresh air, and plenty of scope to catch up while
strolling along made for a lovely Saturday afternoon. The evening featured food
in one of my favourite eateries in London, a tiny Pakistani restaurant tucked
away in between units similar in appearance but all so much less tasty, and a
good bottle of wine in an underground bar just off Brick Lane with great live
music. Fully caught up on all the mutual gossip we’re good to go for another
few months until the next hike, scheduled for either Ireland or the all famous
lake district in ‘the north’ (of England). Dana love thanks for hosting me, it
has been a genuine pleasure as always!
Vasiliki
In New Delhi we lived across the road from each other, in
The Netherlands we lived in the same student house, and my apartment in London
was a 10 minute bike ride away from hers. Apart from these coincidental but
most appreciated months that our international routes overlapped, she spent some
time in her native Greece whereas I briefly called myself an expat in China and
now live in Ireland. Travel-wise our independent itineraries crisscross Europe
in an apparently random and disorganised figure, coincidentally conjoining only
to revert shortly afterwards to diverging dotted lines on a map. Last Sunday
was one of those cherished moments that we got to catch up on what must have
been at least half a year of absence. I loved the scene: a 5 minute stroll from
Embankment, where she travelled my tube and I cycled to by Boris bike, in a
snug red painted coffee house, right next to the window so that London’s metropolitan
vibe was always right there but distanced enough not to interrupt our conversation.
2 hours of intense catching up, sharing stories of work, life, new loves and
long forgotten memories, only to end when I had to catch my plane back home and
she needed to go back to the bunch of friends she had over. Vasiliki, it was
yet again a true pleasure seeing you, and I already look forward to our next
time. Borders and distances do nothing to true friendships if not only enhancing
them.
(photo below: London tube, autumn 2012)
(photo below: London tube, autumn 2012)
Sunday, 10 November 2013
Cork


After nine months in Ireland I am tempted to conclude that
the blissful weather I’ve got to enjoy thus far is one of Dublin’s prerogatives
rather than a nationwide inconsistency with the ominous muttering that can
generally be heard when a native here is asked about the climate. Beyond the azure
blue heavens of the capital the “Land of Fog and Gloom” features grey skies and
continuous showers without imminent relief. Well, perhaps this is all a slight exaggeration,
but the ceaseless lashing we had to endure this weekend in Cork was something I
have rarely witnessed here. That was not to say that we did not enjoy our break
away, on the contrary, it was another trip that was greatly valued!

Cork has a cosy vibe to it that makes it all snug and cute. The
small coloured houses, the winding streets, the hills in the north of the city
and the medieval spires of various churches make it a pleasant place to roam
around. The centre is stocked with class restaurants and inviting pubs, whereas
the suburbs feature brick stone chimneys and grey factories that make it very
clear that Cork is more than an oversized village. Accommodation isn’t cheap
and the value-for-money in our cramped two by three metre room was not overly
impressive yet the central location of Sheila’s Hostel made up for everything.
During an entertaining afternoon we chimed the bells of St Anne’s Church, visited
the butter museum in which we saw a video from 1995 about how butter used to be made, had a great lunch at
the English market, and did some brief yet efficient shopping. Exhausted from
all this activity what was left of the daylight ceased with our siesta back in
the cupboard that was our bed for the night and we were all energetic for an
evening out and about.

Insider tips rather than the Lonely Planet, which for once
seemed to have missed out on all the hotspots, we enjoyed a tremendous good
wine in an old pharmacy turned wine bar, complemented by cheese, ham, sausage,
fresh bread and numerous dips. Fully satisfied we followed up the Mediterranean
bliss with rather more Irish delicatessen as pints of beer and glasses of
whiskey and baileys only to drift away in a lovely satisfied sleep hours later.
The morning featured the usually cosmic Irish breakfast in a Godfather-style
restaurant tucked away in between to larger buildings yet fully packed despite
the miserable weather, and a proper desert at one of the venues where we had
already enjoyed treats the day before. Even the train ride back home was
enjoyable; while the rain unsuccessfully yet incessantly tried to break through
the window shielding us from the elements of nature just a foot away we enjoyed
the pleasures of a good book and decent music while sipping from our imaginary
coffee (the ATM at the train station as well as the coffee machine as well as
the card reader from the coffee cart on the train were broken). Before going
home and lighting up the fire we rounded off the weekend in style by enjoying a
sizable burger and really the last
pint of the weekend at a snug newly discovered pub just off Heuston Station.
Cork, despite all the wet misery you’ve thrown at us, you have been wonderful!
Saturday, 2 November 2013
Madrid!
The bi-annual trip that is already becoming a much
celebrated tradition took us this time to Madrid, capital of the kingdom of
Spain and home to exactly the kind of joy enhancing traditions that we were on
the lookout for. Imagine rich brunches in the bright sunshine, classy cocktail houses,
crowded bars with 6 Euro buckets of beer, the world’s oldest restaurant with
their exquisite choice of sucking pig and baby lamb, 1 Euro cans of beer in the
streets and 12 Euro cocktails in classy venues with more than competent female
bartenders... Despite the economic crisis Madrid buzzes with people enjoying
life, outdoors in the streets and parks, indoors in the bars and restaurants. Watching
El Classico on a big screen, squeezed in between supporters of both the Royal
and the Catalonian sides, transcends any experience of watching this clash of
titans beyond the borders of the Iberian Peninsula.
I was particularly appreciative of the fact that Spanish is
not giving in to the slightest to English as the lingua franca, despite the
many visitors, and that bilingual menus are a rarity beyond the very core of
the touristic centre. The landlady of the ho(s)tel did not speak a word of
English, which led me to chat to her in Italian whereas she would respond to me
a slow Spanish that was fairly well understood. I am all too glad that my hard
earned Italian skills come of use at times, also beyond the Alps!
As the tale goes that the ability to sleep little and party
hard ties in with one’s juvenility this trip was the perfect yardstick to check
whether I am still as young as I generally behave. As I had Griselda from
Estonia over for a drink or two on Friday, my head did not touch the pillow
until about 1 a.m. whereas the alarm clock woke me up from a deep satisfied
sleep a mere two hours later. The odd experience of waking up and walking
through a city in which people are still awake ended when I boarded the air
coach to Dublin airport. Bar the occasional dozing off on the airplane it was
not until four o’clock that night (new time!) that I fell asleep again, after a
long night of drinking and dancing. 26 hours, I can still do it!
Griselda wasn’t the only ghost from the past suddenly
popping up in my contemporary life that weekend, as my first experience in
Madrid was a coffee with 5.5-year absent Lu who aroused distant memories of
glorious times as an ESN mentor in Tilburg City.
The trip was all in all one to be cherished, and Madrid was,
however much she had to offer, only second to the company I was in, as weekends
as such truly serve to catch up with good friends you don’t see too often.
Trusting Madrid to be a trustworthy keeper of our adventures and experiences, let’s
finish off with the best and worst of our experience. Gentlemen, it was a true
pleasure!
Best value for money (1): The bucket with 10 beers for 6
Euros
Best value for money (2): Luijkx’ metro ticket
Worst value for money (1): Koen & Teun’s metro tickets
Worst value for money (2): Luijkx’ new ring
Best tips (1): Gabri
Best tips (2): Lu
Mostly spotted street: Gran Via
Most random place to drink beer: Building excavation
Best drink: Gin tonic with pepper and cucumber
Most beautiful elevator: in the hostel
Longest consecutive time awake: 26 hours
Longest consecutive time asleep: 10 hours
Best way to finish off in style: with a bucket of beer 2 hours before departure
Cherished forever: Our trip to Madrid and the lovely time we had
Lost forever: De pot (toen Luijkx hm had)
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